Hear me out on this.
The Law of Duality - part of the hermetic philosophy - embodies the truth that everything is dual, polar and has an opposite.
What goes up, must come down.
Left, right
Ying, yang Night, day
Hot, cold
etc...
So, logically, if you're an empath, there must be a side to you that's narcissistic.
Hold up. We ALL have narcissistic traits and empathetic traits, correct?
So what I've come to understand, is that as an empath, my SHADOW side (or at least one of them) is of a narcissist.
Does this make sense? Yes. Given my previous "life" in addictions; only I know the depths of the darkness I went through, and went to.
Will I ever go back there, no. But I know it's there, and I've made peace with it. I've embodied it. Reclaimed my energy.
For someone to have so much light (not necessarily referring to myself), there must be an equal amount of darkness.
This is a theory i'm developing. Only ONE person I know so far is on the same page- most people who have been exposed to narcissists are still in this narrative of how they are inhumane, soulless, and should be abolished.
If you've truly done the healing work, that wouldn't affect you so much. Sure, there's trauma, but wouldn't you want to transcend the trauma and truly be free from it one day?
That day can come anytime. You can let go anytime. You can be free anytime, at any given moment.
& this is not some spiritual energy work, this is actual psychology, NLP, reprogramming and rewiring.
Blessings
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